The Power of The Yoni
Written by Alyana Sabb
“Now I got the pussy and the power if you ask me.”
Pussy. Yoni. Vagina. Flower. Honeypot. Snatch. Pum-pum. Hoo-ha. Lady Bits. Life Giver. Whatever you name her, you cannot deny her power. She brings life. She gives pleasure. She is unique to each body. Not without her flaws, she is beautiful and healing. She is magical, and one of the most powerful tools a woman has to make her wildest dreams come true.
I am sure many of you have heard of the term manifestation. If you haven’t, manifestation is a noun that describes an event, action or object that clearly shows or embodies something – especially a theory or abstract idea. It is the public display of emotion or feeling. Something metaphysical being brought into the physical. Essentially, manifestation is when your deepest desires become a reality.
The three pillars of manifestation are:
1. Know what you want.
2. Visualize what you want in present tense.
3. Feel that you already have what you want .
There are many methods used to manifest, and people are free to find one that works best for them and their specific needs. One method in particular, however, is called the “O method” and this harnesses the power of an orgasm to align oneself with their deepest intentions. Perl, @hothighpriestess on Tiktok, is one of the women responsible for making the “O Method” go viral. This concept encompasses the idea that by tapping into the intoxicating and euphoric energy released when having an orgasm, you gain the power to use sexual energy to manifest what you truly want. You may be wondering, how exactly does orgasm manifestation work? Well, when you orgasm, you're able to feel, visualize, and claim your desired reality – connecting to the 3 pillars of manifestation in the most magnetic way. At the moment of orgasm, people tend to clear their minds and let go of their limiting beliefs. At the very peak of your play time, whether that be solo or partner play, you are vibrating at a frequency that is typically hard to tap into without much practice. Once the orgasm is achieved and the energy is released, it is so powerful that it essentially opens a portal: a life creation center. You become more in tune with your creative abilities.
Harnessing this energy connects you to the universe in a way that allows you to have access to create and call into fruition that in which you want to manifest. Connecting your climax with a clear, visualized intention gives you the focus to manifest it into the physical reality. Moments like this show you just how much power the pussy has, the impact of pure divine feminine energy.
This is not a one hit wonder, though. Like many other manifestation tools, this method takes time, commitment, intention, and practice. But, for those who are interested in exploring the “O Method”, it truly begins with setting the foundation for what exactly you are trying to manifest. Remember, step 1 of manifestation is Know what you want.
Get specific about your desires and dreams. The universe is not a mind reader, so you have to be clear. If you don’t know where to start, something that helps me is journaling or creating a vision board collage. For vision boards, you can make them digitally on an app such as Pinterst, or go the old school way and cut out pictures and words from a magazine. For the New Year, I did that exact thing.
Having this visual of reminders keeps me grounded in the goals I set for myself for the year and beyond. If journaling is a better route for you, here are prompts and categories to help guide you in organizing your thoughts around what exactly it is you want to call into your life.
Visualizing your Dream Life:
Using present tense, write the details of a full day in your dream life. How do you feel when you wake up? Where do you live? What does your home look like? Who do you live with? How do you get around? What are your day to day activities? What do you do for work (if you work at all)? What is your physical aesthetic? What does your self care routine look like? Use all of your senses to add details as if it is what you are living currently.
Showing Appreciation for your Body & Mind:
For this journaling exercise, you can choose to show appreciation for your whole body, or a specific body part. Or it could be an aspect of your personality, or your overall outlook on life. Describe why you appreciate this part of yourself. How does it help you navigate your day? How would you like to improve this aspect of yourself? How do your mind and body connect?
Grounding in Passion and Purpose:
Think about your innermost desires and motivations. What motivates you? When are you the happiest? What activities bring you the most joy? In what spaces do you feel the most accepted and seen? What goals do you want to achieve in 1 year, 3 years, 5 years?
Once you have a clear vision about what you want, then you are going to use that as the guide to your orgasm. While you can try the “O Method” with and without a partner, I believe that any good sexual encounter begins with fully understanding and connecting with self. Later you can add someone to the party, ensuring that this is someone that you trust and love. This allows for the space to be created in which both of you can harness the sexual energy to co-manifest a specific desire into reality. But first, I encourage you to do some self-pleasuring. No one knows you better than you do. Using an orgasm as a tool of manifestation means that the more intense the orgasm, the more powerful the energy amassed that can be used to your advantage. When self-pleasuring, being aware of your own Erogenous Zones help you feel more in tune with the ways that make you feel good, and be more confident to later express to a sexual partner how they can best please you.
An Erogenous Zone is a sensitive touchpoint on your body that can differ from person to person. When these parts of the body are stimulated, it can speed up climax and enhance sexual arousal. There are over 31 erogenous zones for men and women, some including: the scalp, ears, navel, sacrum, inner arms, armpits, inner wrist, palm of hands, fingertips, behind the knee, nipples, lips, neck, inner thighs, and toes. According to Medicinenet.com, the Top 7 Erogenous Zones specifically in women are the ears, fingertips and palms, nipples, inner thighs, clitoris, the A spot (lower side of the vaginal opening), and the bottom of your feet. Additionally, some other places on my body that I found to be personal erogenous zones are my neck, hips, middle back, and bottom lip.
To begin trying to identify yours, try a sensation inventory. Imagine the body as a blank canvas that is ready to be explored, every inch unturned. Set the mood: play sensual music, turn down the lights, take an adult gummy or have a glass of wine… the choice is yours. Trace your body with your fingertips and apply light pressure (as you get more comfortable, you can try other forms of touch such as toys, a feather, a stick, cold metal, ice, and/or hot wax). Even if you are someone who may already be aware of your erogenous zones, being open to exploring can create the possibility of finding more – a fun and liberating way to add a new tool to your toolbox for better orgasms… thus leading to better manifestations.
When you are ready to introduce another partner, you can use something called body mapping where each partner takes turns. One person is actively touching while the other is passively indulging in the sensations until it's their turn. The partner doing the active touching is stimulating the other’s body from head to toe in a way that is mindful, deliberate, and comprehensive. The one being touched is remaining mindful of the way they are feeling the entire time. Once you’ve located your hot spots and begin to heat up, start to formulate the image in your mind of what you decided to manifest, whether it was chosen through your journaling or vision board activity. As you get closer to climax, picture your wishes as if it was already yours, because it is. As you hit peak and have an orgasm, claim it to be yours mentally or vocally. You are harnessing the energy as if you already have this because soon, you will.
Through this manifestation method, you are embodying the essence of attracting, not chasing. To do that, you must invoke the feeling of already having what you want, the third pillar of manifestation. For example, to attract more love in your life, you have to feel and embody love. The energy you put out is the energy you receive. To ground yourself in this belief, here are some affirmations that you can add to your intention setting during your orgasm manifestations or during the aftercare.
What is mine, is already on its way to me.
I am deserving of beautiful things.
I can do difficult things.
Everything I do turns into success.
Good things are happening every day in my life.
What I am seeking is seeking me.
Wealth and abundance flow to me easily.
My soul is ready to live the life of my dreams.
I am the author of my own story.
I release what is out of my control, I accept what is in my control.
I am not my mistakes.
Mistakes are just a way to help me learn and grow.
My heart is open.
Remember, you got the pussy and the power. Use it.
